Thursday, October 08, 2026

So… should I start blogging again? It’s been years since I last used Blogger, but with CollarNcuffs now coming to an end after nearly 20 years, I’ve been thinking about what comes next — and whether I might dip my toes back into blogging. My own journey into the Femdom lifestyle goes back nearly 40 years, my personal lifestlye with my sub/s 30 years so there’s certainly no shortage of stories, experiences, opinions, lessons learned and probably a fair amount of rambling I could share along the way. 😉 I’m also wondering whether there would be any interest in bringing some of the old CollarNcuffs resource pages back as blog posts. There were years' worth of information, resources and things I put together for the community, and it seems a shame for all of that knowledge to simply disappear when the site closes. So, before I start putting a lot of time into it, I thought I’d ask… Would anyone actually be interested in reading it? Would you prefer the personal side — my experiences and thoughts after nearly 30 years in the lifestyle — the old resource material, or perhaps a mixture of both? For now, I’m just testing the waters. 😊

Monday, October 12, 2009

Gone but where?

http://mrsemmakelly.blogspot.com/


where did they go?
Any one got the link?

Saturday, October 10, 2009

How to meet a Dominant woman

I love this blog posting, it is well written and offers some valuable advise and comments from readers

in reference to: how to meet a dominant woman « Devastating Yet Inconsequential (view on Google Sidewiki)

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

Cooking with cum

For the Femdom who has every thing!


I thought I'd post some thing a little different this week with a Sexy Food idea that had recently been posted on CollarNcuffs.com forum blogs on the Natural Harvest Cook book~ cooking with cum cookbook.



I wanted to know more so I did a little research!

In March this year Vice Magazine had An Interview with the Jizz Cook Fotie Photenhauer, author of Natural Harvest: A collection of semen-based recipes, the Lulu-published cookbook that made the rounds of all the blogs and comedy clubs last Fall and is now available in a revised 2nd edition

From the Vice interview:


Vice: After it occurred to you that using your semen as a cooking ingredient was the next logical step, what did you do?

Fotie Photenhauer: I thought, "Let’s try it out." Semen is identical to egg whites. And egg whites are a very common ingredient in a lot of foods.

What did you make?


I made crepes. Normally you use a lot of eggs, four or five eggs in a batch of crepes. I substituted one egg with about four or five tablespoons of semen. They turned out beautiful.


I'm guessing he's not winning over a lot of new connoisseurs in the vanilla 'mainstream' world but used in Femdom or Maledom [cooking with cum] has some interesting possibilities, he does have somewhat of a point when he says,


I mean, people eat all kinds of weird things. Eggs are menstruation from chickens. And that’s pretty disgusting, if you think about it. I mean, eating a chicken menstruation? What’s the difference between eating another animal’s menstruation or eating someone you love’s semen. You have to think of it with perspective."


And, from the book's introduction:


"Semen is not only nutritious, but it also has a wonderful texture and amazing cooking properties. Like fine wine and cheeses, the taste of semen is complex and dynamic. Semen is inexpensive to produce and is commonly available in many, if not most, homes and restaurants. Despite all of these positive qualities, semen remains neglected as a food. This book hopes to change that. Once you overcome any initial hesitation, you will be surprised to learn how wonderful semen is in the kitchen. Semen is an exciting ingredient that can give every dish you make an interesting twist. If you are a passionate cook and are not afraid to experiment with new ingredients--you will love this cook book!"


So what does experimenting Femdom do?









high protein smoothie

Unlike other high protein drinks this one doesn't not use animal proteins such as eggs or whey for nutrition

1 cup diced kiwi
1 ripe banana
1 cup of soy milk
1-3 tablespoons of fresh semen
Ice cubes

Throw every thing into a blender and liquefy.

Chef's Note: This is a great to experiment with.
Try substituting peaches or strawberries for the kiwi.


Test Run of course !

After reading the chefs note how could I resist









So you never what on the menu at my place now *grins* for being such a good boy he got cake too!

Final result: good enough to drink





This cook book can purchased at Lulu or alternitely through the Author at semenbook@gmail.com

Thursday, September 03, 2009

Busy busy

Wow such a busy month. So this is going to be one of those..Hey I am alive posts.


So much is happening on CollarNcuffs.com we have the taste of cyber programs back in full swing and are now training two groups at once for single and partnered males seeking a taste of Femdom cyber online domination. Our New to Femdom Domination programs for the ladies have also been a great success, with many of them commenting we (MissBitch and I) have made the process easy and simple to follow with the hundreds of personal images and video footage, and one on one interaction. A third group is currently starting on our sister site studyBDSM where we have added as additional feature cam play which we post about shortly...all cams are returned and free as is every thing on CNC

The forum also has a lot of interesting topics regarding Femdom and BDSM topics: This week my personal favorite would the topic of user names by Fetish Educators and just how 'out' they are within the community. It's wonderful to see the replies. The diversity of the members on CollarNcuffs never ceases to amaze me.

Well I'm off to finish writing, after the publishing contract for two Femdom 'how too' books (availible Febuary) we are currently writing a third..ohh that reminds me I need some 'test' subjects *evil grin* but I'll post about later...this was supposed to be a flyby visits.