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Ghosting in Femdom & How to Find a Loyal Submissive

November 28, 2025

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Telling Your Partner You Want Femdom. How to Tell Your Boyfriend or Husband You Want to Dominate Them Using Femdom

November 21, 2025

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Gentle Femdom Ideas: Explore Soft Power, Tender Dominance & Loving Authority

November 14, 2025

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A Guide to Mastering Edging and Orgasm Control for Males

November 07, 2025

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Yes, I'm a submissive man!

Femdom Era | Escaping the FLR/Femdom Closet - No more hiding. No more whispering. No more living life in the shadows for fear of what others might think. *I will be quiet no more*. For decades, altern...
1 week ago
poppet sub slut

An Orgasmic Time Out West By The River - Owner likes me to provide Her with a treat on a regular basis. This month's treat saw me booking an overnight hotel stay for the two of us. i chose a rel...
3 weeks ago
Masocast

Skye and James from Unikink - Skye and James of unikink.com share the story of how their partnership—both personal and professional—grew out of a single six-hour photo shoot that change...
6 months ago
The Edge of Vanilla

Every day is a new record - Since I don’t track my locked time down to the minute like some other guys around here, I had to wait a bit to be sure that I can write this post with any ...
1 year ago
Mistress Tich's Corner

juan? Don't believe Me? - Nf? aly??x???
5 years ago
Bight Me!

Hello world! - Welcome to WordPress. This is your first post. Edit or delete it, then start writing!
5 years ago
femdom101

Conversations. - Thank all of you for contributing to the blog by way of comments. Since the last posting John and I have had several discussions related to what we call Ru...
6 years ago
Adventures of a HeadMistress

How Drag Queens Shaped Today’s Biggest Makeup Trends - An absolutely fascinating look into how today’s current makeup looks (AKA “Insta-makeup” or “Selfie Makeup”) developed from drag queen trends over the years.
6 years ago
Razors and Vines

Rewrite History - Sometimes jealousy can crop up when you’re with someone. It’s an unfortunate part of human nature. There is a way you can process it without it consumi...
6 years ago
Wilhelmina Dreams

From the Bottom Up - After reading the post Commentary – Safe, Sane, And Consensual Spanking over at Our Bottoms Burn it got me reflecting on my own spanking experiences and wh...
9 years ago
Love, Couples, and Kink

Found the start of a good story Romantic, Rational, Realistic - Hi, I found this story and felt compelled to post it. Rare combination of the 3 Rs listed in the title of this post. Thank you Mistress Amanda Starting a...
9 years ago
Explorations

Self Reward - I'm really busy right now. I mean professionally and personally. There's just a lot of goodness and opportunity flying around at the moment. It all takes...
10 years ago
Sensual Femdom

Feeldoe and Strapon Fun - Yes, I wish I had a cock. I will readily admit that I have a raging case of penis envy. I love cocks- they are such a symbol of power and authority and wh...
10 years ago
Trying To Make Some Sense

Its End of The World as We Know It.... - Good title for a song there! Well I've been away a long time, not a squeak of a blog in over 3 years. And such a lot has changed. I've changed home. I've ...
10 years ago
Male Submission Art

maymay: Software Development as Direct Action, by maymay (slides... - maymay: Software Development as Direct Action, by maymay (slides + voiceover) See also: Rape is exceedingly common in the BDSM scene (according to the B...
11 years ago
Into the Dark

New post on Depravity in Perversion - http://depravityinperversion.blogspot.co.at/
11 years ago
Starting a FemDom Marriage.

Is BDSM being accepted by the mainstream or is it just a fad that will pass? - Over the past few years I have noticed that society is seeming to change it's perception of kinky sex. Is this observation true or is it just a fad? Is ...
11 years ago
Being Her knight

Amy Reid -
11 years ago
Domination, Submission, and Love in Life & Dreams

The Goddess wants to play - Part 2 (E) - Courtesy of Who's Sorry Now? via Lunar Black - Desire for Submission and More... Hmmm… Where was I in our delightful scene… More than time for me to fini...
11 years ago
slaveboy in Marital bliss

Mistress Laura rented me out for my birthday - I know it's been a long time since I posted. There's no excuse, things got busy and I didn't update you all. My birthday was in early August and I'm still ...
13 years ago
SPANKEDHORTIC

Changes To The Side bar And Blog Rolls - And This Blog Has Moved - As of the 21st of July 2013, the blog roll lists and other side bar links here have changed. To find out details read the post listed in the following lin...
13 years ago
Holly's Head Space

Toes in the pool - sigh. It has been a long, long time. As much as I stand my by decision to delete my old posts, right now i wish that i had just hidden them somewhere and ...
13 years ago
Tantalus

Sharing - Oil on canvas
14 years ago
On Female Dominance of the male

Introducing The Conservator - Some time ago Saratoga asked me if I would be willing to keep this blog alive and active if he became unable to do so. I agreed, and so now, here I am. ...
14 years ago
Down On My Knees

Kind Cruelty - Intense masochistic craving that I may actually experience.
15 years ago
The Edge of Vanilla

Welcome - You are probably here because you clicked on a Comment I left on another blog. Or perhaps a web search, most likely involving the terms "chastity", "orgas...
15 years ago
Where Boys Fear To Tread

Drug RAMBLING - Without the legalisation of banned drugs human progression I fear shall continue to remain slow. With narcotic drugs being illegal, crime will continue ris...
16 years ago
ramblings of a slave

W - The quick post is to say with some relief that w is out of the picture. That is far from describing what actually happened though. Mistress and i have a 7 ...
16 years ago
Hardwired Submissive Man

Best Friends - It's been a weird month of ups and downs which really makes me think. Bella's depression seems to be in check so far which is nice. I've been trying very h...
17 years ago
Loving Female Authority

I want to buy other femdom blogs and sites - I am no longer content to be so casual about what I do on here. I want to make my advocation my occupation. I want to find an existing commercial site with...
18 years ago
Your personal sex doctor

Discount sex toys - Discount adult toys...what they are made for? Such toys for big boys and girls are created to awaken your fantasy, to give pleasure, to teach us how to get...
18 years ago
Pea's Playtime Adventures

Fetlife - I don't use this journal anymore. There's a relatively new website called Fetlife that most kinky people I know are using now. If you haven't heard of it, ...
18 years ago
Submissive in the City

Musings on Nudity - I am impossibly hard. Though I came just two nights ago now I feel lust that usually doesn't arrive so soon after an orgasm. In fact, the past two weeks my...
18 years ago
Domme Trip

I've Got Curves! - A few weeks ago my Toy surprised me with a gift. It is a black latex corset. It is so sexy. Here is a picture of it... First of all, to make the title rela...
19 years ago
Dove's Nest (no longer posting)

- *LOVELY DAY* Today was just what I needed. As my posts have surely hinted at lately, I've been feeling very disconnected from my submissive. I could blame ...
20 years ago
celtic galaxy musings

What a Month - This has been an interesting month. Vanilla life for me has taken over this past week. It has made for some tough times trying to get the energy up to thin...
20 years ago
LFA Skeptic

Einstein und Femdom - Was Einstein into femdom? Well, I can't say for sure - but some of Einstein's quotes apply well to the ongoing discussion of what drives a person to seek t...
20 years ago
to blog or not to blog

beginning - I was told about this site from a co-worker. I thought I would try my hand at it. Hopefully I will be able to get my feelings put down on here instead of b...
22 years ago
to blog or not to blog

beginning - I was told about this site from a co-worker. I thought I would try my hand at it. Hopefully I will be able to get my feelings put down on here instead of b...
22 years ago
Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

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The Accidental Domme

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From Mundane To Mistress

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Bondage Erotic Sex Stories

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Catwomanslair

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Subservient to Her

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Slutsville.com

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Devastating Yet Inconsequential

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The Traveling Masochist

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Mrs. Kelly's Playhouse

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Welcome to Femdom Alternative

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The Entranced Realm

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Lady Julia's Entranced Realm

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On Female Dominance of the male

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Destiny and her pet chance

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